by Barker Realty, Inc. | Mar 10, 2020 | Barker Realty, Raleigh Property Management, Tenant Acquisition, Tips for Landlords
Owning a Raleigh investment property is tough work. In addition to understanding the legalities of leasing and handling the property upkeep, you also have to make sure that every tenant is a responsible, respectful individual who won’t disturb the property or their neighbors. Unfortunately, this can be tricky to do in the best of circumstances, and when the tenants are the property owner’s friends, situations can quickly become murky. Below are some reasons why you should never rent to friends (or friends’ children).
It’s Impossible to Maintain a Professional Relationship
Tenant-landlord relationships should be, first and foremost, professional. As the owner of a Raleigh rental property, you are responsible for setting the rules, and your tenants are responsible for following them. When you rent to a friend, you’ll find that the professional boundary gets muddled. Your pal might ask for leniency and special allowances that you wouldn’t grant another tenant, or take advantage of your relationship to ignore rules of the rental agreement. On your part, you will start to feel resentful and taken for granted, which leads us to our next point:
It Could Cost You Your Friendship
You probably like your friend a lot; after all, that’s why you decided to rent to them! However, renting to a friend starts you both down a path that leads to nothing but disaster. If you and your friend run into disagreements about the lease and the property, your entire friendship may suffer. Your friend may feel resentful that, despite your good relationship, you are refusing to cut them some slack; you may resent that they are taking advantage of your history to skirt the rules. At the end of the day, this can cause a serious rift that will last long after the lease period is over.
In The End, You’re The One Who Has to Pay
If your rental agreement states that no pets are allowed, and your buddy thinks you’ll be fine with his German Shepherd because you go way back, you’re the one who’s going to be left cleaning up the mess on the floor. Your friend can simply hop-skip to another property—hopefully one that’s less tolerant of his behavior—but as the landlord, you don’t have that option; you will either have to make repairs and restorations that his security deposit doesn’t cover (if he had one). Rather than run the risk of a ruined apartment and a ruined friendship, you’re better off adhering to one simple rule: no friends allowed.
Get Quality Help from a Raleigh Property Management Company
Being a landlord is tough enough as it is; you don’t want to add to the pile by putting a couple of your closest friends under a roof that you manage. Fortunately, there are plenty of tools at your disposal to help you find responsible, clean, polite tenants. A Raleigh property management company such as Barker Realty can help you vet tenants, take care of their issues; manage their rental payments, and much more. To schedule a meeting with one of our incredible property managers, please click here.
by Barker Realty, Inc. | Mar 10, 2020 | Barker Realty, Property Management Blog, Property Management Company, Tips for Landlords
There’s no doubt that these are stressful times for everyone, especially landlords. With so much economic uncertainty, it can become easy to become overwhelmed by fears and anxieties. Before you do, though, take a moment to step back, breathe, and refocus. Recognize that your tenants are depending on you to provide some sense of leadership and direction, since you are the one in control of their home, and becoming overwhelmed is bad for them and you. Below are some stress management tips for landlords which can help you help you keep calm and carry on during this, and other, crises.
Manage Your Media Intake
While it’s good to stay informed about the latest developments surrounding the Coronavirus, being too informed does little good and a lot of harm. As terrible stories continue to emerge from Italy, New York, and other epicenters of the pandemic, you may find yourself submerged in misinformation and worst-case scenarios that paints a pretty black picture. Pay close attention to your emotions as you read the news, and step away if you start to feel overwhelmed. It may be necessary to stop consuming news entirely, or limit your consumption to a specific timeframe and duration each day (e.g., thirty minutes each evening).
Put Your Mind to Work
The mind is a very dangerous place to be during a time of crisis. Instead of sitting around and stewing in your thoughts, give your brain an assignment—any assignment. This can be as simple as completing a difficult crossword puzzle, or testing yourself on basic knowledge, like naming the capital of each U.S. state or the countries of Africa. It is very difficult—nigh impossible—for your brain to worry and solve problems simultaneously.
Make a Goal and Focus on Crushing It
If you find yourself out of work due to the pandemic, don’t fall into the trap of browsing the web and watching T.V. all day. Recognize that this is your chance, perhaps your only chance in a while, to tackle a big goal you never have time for, or take steps to come out even stronger once the crisis is over. If you have creative aspirations, try working on your novel, developing your body of work or learning a new craft or skill. If you have always dreamed of starting a side-business, put together a business plan, try your hand at building a website, research ideas for logos, and create social media pages. Always wanted muscular arms, or a six-pack of abs? Now’s your chance to make it happen!
Practice Grounding Exercises
Much has been written about mindfulness and breathing techniques when managing anxiety, but one less-popular technique, which is often much more effective, is that of mental grounding. When things get tough, simply take out a piece of paper and record all the physical details of your surroundings: the number of tiles in the floor or ceiling; everything you can see from your window; the precise color of each object in your line of vision. Since your brain cannot focus on the external world at the same time as your internal dialogue, this helps quell panicked emotions and reaffirm that, while some things feel out of control, everything around you is still here.
Stay Strong – And Come Out On Top
Aside from staying indoors and practicing social distancing, there is very little landlords can do to bring the Coronavirus pandemic to an end. What we can do is let our tenants know that we are here for them; that we will work with them as best as we can; and that we are taking steps to keep the property safe, sanitary, and secure. By being available, calm, and compassionate to our tenants’ needs, we stand to forge stronger, longer tenant relationships that will last long after this situation is past.
Barker Realty, Inc. is a full-service real estate brokerage firm with more than thirty years of Raleigh NC property management experience. To set up a consultation appointment with one of our skilled representatives, click here.
